Selena Gomez Engaged to Benny Blanco After One Year of Dating
Selena Gomez didn’t need to go runnin’ through the jungle to get to you, Benny Blanco.
Because as it turns out, the “Wolves” singer and the music producer—who’ve collaborated on hits like “Single Soon” and “I Can’t Get Enough”—were actually first introduced more than a decade before they started dating, leading to their engagement in December 2024.
“We both met each other like almost 16, 17 years ago,” Benny revealed in an April interview with SiriusXM Hits 1. “Obviously, we made a bunch of songs together. But before we had made any music together, I was one of her big meetings—like right around when she was just leaving Disney to make her own music. Neither one of us remembered the meeting, but her mom remembered it.”
And even after they reconnected years later, Benny didn’t expect their relationship to shift from platonic to romantic.
“It was so crazy,” he said a month later on The Howard Stern Show. “When we went out on our first date, I didn’t even know it was a date.”
Still, Selena knew the heart wants what it wants and made the first move.
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“She literally asked me out,” Benny recalled to YouTuber Kai Cenat in a Nov. 19 Twitch livestream. “We were just talking, and then she was like, ‘You want to get dinner?'”
However, he didn’t need to go round and round all evening wondering where she stood.
“We just went and got a drink first, and I didn’t even realize we were on a date,” Benny added. “She was like, ‘I would’ve worn something different to this date.’ I was like, ‘Wait, what? We’re on a date?’ I had no idea.”
And it wasn’t long before they realized they had something rare.
“We hung out two days later, and then I was like, ‘Yo, I think she likes me,'” he noted. “And then I literally just kissed her. And then the rest is history.”
Initially, Benny explained, they kept their romance “very under the radar.” But since confirming their relationship on Instagram last December, he and Selena have offered fans glimpses into their bond by giving peeks into their public outings and private date nights (he told Howard Stern he once rented out a movie theater for Valentine’s Day, where the couple enjoyed her favorite film and snacks).
The Emilia Pérez actress and the Open Wide writer have also shared PDA pics, revealed who said “I love you” first (spoiler alert: it was her) and posted sweet shout-outs.
“Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humor and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me,” Selena wrote in a tribute for his 36th birthday in March. “I love you @itsbennyblanco.”
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And she’s made it clear this isn’t some same old love.
“It’s the safest that I feel, and it’s been really lovely,” the 32-year-old told Apple Music’s Zane Lowe in February. “And I’ve only grown through it.”
Benny has also expressed his hope to grow a family with Selena one day.
This story was originally published July 22, 2024 at 5:00 a.m. PST.
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